Queer cuddle party at Kultus Club, Tallinn

We all need touch to feel safe and supported, yet most of us do not get enough platonic touch, and finding spaces that feel safe for queer and trans bodies can be a struggle.

Inspired by Domme Thalia Hel’s cuddle parties, this is a non-sexual space for queer people to practise boundaries, ask for what they need and connect with others without the pressure of cisheterosexual social expectations. If you are neurodivergent, or simply find social situations exhausting, this is a place where the rules are clear and consent comes first.

What to expect: an introduction and a somatic practice, a consent briefing, a few hours of optional, non-sexual physical touch (in a group, one-to-one, or simply sitting nearby and talking), and a closing debrief circle. Snacks and non-alcoholic drinks are provided. Wear comfortable layers.

Everything is optional, and you can change your mind at any time. If you just want to come, sit in the corner, eat snacks and watch how it works, you are welcome. There is no pressure to do anything or be vulnerable before you are ready.

This is an LGBTQIA+ space that is open to allies. Whether you are trans, queer or still figuring things out, you belong here. You are welcome to bring a friend, a soft toy or anything else that comforts you.

The evening is facilitated by Joelle Marcelle Antson, a queer and neurodivergent trans woman, somatic coach, bodyworker and pro domme.

The venue has no lift; please use the stairs. Exact address will be sent by email a few days before the event.

Tickets: €20 regular, €30 supporter. Ask if you need a discount.

Cancellation: this is a limited-space event, so monetary refunds are not offered. In case of a health or personal emergency, please get in touch; your registration can then be transferred to a future event.

Time and place: 29 November 2026, 16:00–20:00 (gathering from 15:45), Kultus Club, Kopli, Tallinn.