KINK TRIFECTA: spanking, choking, hair pulling (done right)

Everything you (and your date) should know about doing these things safely.

Spanking, choking and hair pulling have been popularised by porn and kinky fantasy content, and almost everyone has tried them, even people who do not call themselves kinky. The sensations and power dynamics they create can be very arousing. But these practices are not simple or safe by default, especially choking.

That is why Natalja Sorokina, a professional dominatrix with more than five years of experience, teaches how to take part so as to maximise pleasure and minimise risks to partners’ mental and physical health.

We cover:

Dangers – what we don’t do and what can go wrong

Appeal – why these actions enhance pleasure

Communication beforehand – what to talk through first

Techniques – how, where, angles, intensity, specifics

Aftercare – how to look after yourself and your partner afterwards

This suits a couple who want to spice up their sex life safely, people learning on their own, or friends who want an edutainment evening on a Sunday night.

All genders, sexual and romantic orientations, bodies and experience levels are welcome. The language can be English, Latvian or Russian, adjusted to the group.

Entry: €45 per person, €80 per pair.

The workshop is led by Natalja Sorokina, also known as Sonatalicious and Thalia Hel, a sexuality and kink coach, sex educator, Domme and event organiser who specialises in consent, communication and intimacy, holistic BDSM and ENM. Questions can be sent to the host by email.